30 DAY
COUPLE'S RECOVERY DEVOTIONAL
Have you been betrayed by your spouse?
We're here to help you find the answers you've been looking for on your journing to healing.
Restore your trust, rebuild your intimacy, recover your hope.
What you get with our 2-Pack
His & Hers Devotionals
Created for couple recovering from the devastation of an affair, the Betrayal Recovery Devotional for Her and Him is designed to gently lead you through the process or recovering and rebuilding your marriage.
After 30 Days, you will have:
- Found the root cause of why the affair happened
- Processed the grief and trauma of the betrayal as a couple
- Understood the practical steps on how to begin trusting again
- Learned how to forgive and reconcile
- Moved forward with affair-proofing your marriage
MEET THE AUTHOR
Caleb Simonyi-Gindele MAMFT
Registered Clinical Counselor
Caleb is not just another advice columnist; he is a Registered Clinical Counselor (BCACC #4303) who specializes in helping marriages recover from the brink of destruction. Couples love Caleb's research-based, practical and Biblical approach to helping marriages. He co-hosts a top 50 podcast, The Marriage Podcast for Smart People, with his wife, Verlynda.
HER Devotional
Day 1: The Endless Search for Facts
Day 2: What You Need to Know
Day 3: What are You Feeling?
Day 4: What Do You Need?
Day 5: Links to Past Betrayal
Day 6: Grieving
Day 7: Can I Even Trust Myself?
Day 8: Can I Even Trust My Spouse?
Day 9: What You Can and Can't Control
Day 10: Trauma
Day 11: Is It Your Fault?
Day 12: Ownership Leads to Safety
Day 13: Controlling Him Won't Prevent Another Affair
Day 14: Looking into Your Marriage
Day 15: Collusion
Day 16: Why the Affair Happened
Day 17: Was it Really Just a Symptom?
Day 18: Sharing Responsibility
Day 19: Comparison and Competition
Day 20: Be Patient
Day 21: Do I Want to Reconcile?
Day 22: Softness
Day 23: Forgiveness Preparation
Day 24: Recall the Hurt
Day 25: Empathy for the Betrayer
Day 26: Gratitude for Divine Forgiveness
Day 27: Commit to Forgive
Day 28: When is Forgiveness Complete?
Day 29: Safety
Day 30: Renewed Love
HIS Devotional
Day 1: Transparency Leads to Intimacy
Day 2: Hiding Doesn't Help
Day 3: Acknowledging Her Feelings
Day 4: A Communications Exercise
Day 5: Filling in the Blanks
Day 6: Grieving
Day 7: Honesty with Yourself
Day 8: Honesty with Your Spouse
Day 9: Demonstrating Accountability
Day 10: Shame
Day 11: Affair Profiles
Day 12: Ownership Leads to Forgiveness
Day 13: An Affair is More Than Just an Affair
Day 14: Looking into Your Marriage
Day 15: Collusion
Day 16: Why the Affair Happened
Day 17: Was it Really Just a Symptom?
Day 18: Taking Responsibility
Day 19: Breaking Up Old Pathways
Day 20: There Are No Quick Fixes
Day 21: Hurdles to Reconciliation
Day 22: Softness
Day 23: Don't Return Blame for Blame
Day 24: Recall the Hurt
Day 25: Seeing Yourself Through Her Eyes
Day 26: Leaning on Divine Forgiveness
Day 27: Forgiveness is a Journey
Day 28: Extending the Olive Branch
Day 29: Resilience
Day 30: Renewed Love
FAQ's
What is a "Devotional"?
The phrases "doing devotions" or "having devotions" may sound foreign or weird. These phrases are simply ways people describe spending time reading God's word, the Bible, and reflecting on it with hopes of coming to a new understanding and having peace and clarity on those thoughts.
I'm already overwhelmed.
Do I have to do 30 days in a row?
Look, I totally get it. You have so much to sort through. Think of this as 30 steps you can take at your own pace. You can move to the next day when you're ready to do so. There are some days you'll just want to take a break - that's absolutely OK. This is not a recipe or formula, it's a guide for your journey.
Is There A Guarantee?
YES!... all of our products have a 30-day, no-questions-asked guarantee. In other words, if you aren't happy for any reason, just let us know and we'll give you your money back. We obviously don't think it'll come to that, but if you're even the least bit worried if this will work for your marriage, then put your mind at ease.
Do I Get 2 Devotionals?
YES! You get a devotional for HIM and a devotional for HER. Both devotionals will be sent to you via priority email.
Do we have to do this together?
No. It is a great way if you can and we've designed some of the days so that there is an interactive component. But, even if you're working on this alone or separated by distance, it will help you to process and recover from the betrayal.
What if my spouse isn't sure s/he wants to stay in the marriage?
That's a tough one. I would suggest you ask them to commit to going through the 30 days with you before making a decision. At least if they have made a truly sincere effort they could then leave with a better conscience. I know that's a scary suggestion to make, but you may find it's a better place to be than to be uncertain and really going nowhere with the recovery process. It's you call, though.
Testimony
"These devotionals helped me through the very raw, real recovery journey. Caleb is one of the best and his process has helped me become whole again and to follow Christ more closely." KY
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