Porn & Sex Addiction Counseling

Escape the cycle of addiction to restore trust and healthy intimacy in your life.

Our Proven 5-Step Process Helps Anyone Motivated to Quit

  1. Assess the addiction: We'll begin with a thorough history of the addiction, look at co-occurring addictions, and examine your family history for patterns of addiction.
  2. Establish Safety Barriers: We'll help you set up barriers to acting out again to create a safety net against slips and relapses
  3. Identify the Chain: You will work with your therapist to detail out the steps you take toward porn or sexual behaviors so that you learn how to intervene on yourself and redirect towards healthy choices.
  4. Examine Fantasies: Learn the deeper meaning behind the fantasies you are drawn to. This work reveals the roots of the addiction: the parts most in need of healing so that you can bring yourself to your marriage or family relationships as a loyal, committed person.
  5. Healthy Intimacy: Heal attachment wounds and disorders so that you can build healthy, authentic and wholesome connections with the people that matter most to you, including making amends where necessary.

Our Proven 5-Step Process Helps Anyone Motivated to Quit

  1. Assess the addiction: We'll begin with a thorough history of the addiction, look at co-occurring addictions, and examine your family history for patterns of addiction.
  2. Establish Safety Barriers: We'll help you set up barriers to acting out again to create a safety net against slips and relapses
  3. Identify the Chain: You will work with your therapist to detail out the steps you take toward porn or sexual behaviors so that you learn how to intervene on yourself and redirect towards healthy choices.
  4. Examine Fantasies: Learn the deeper meaning behind the fantasies you are drawn to. This work reveals the roots of the addiction: the parts most in need of healing so that you can bring yourself to your marriage or family relationships as a loyal, committed person.
  5. Healthy Intimacy: Heal attachment wounds and disorders so that you can build healthy, authentic and wholesome connections with the people that matter most to you, including making amends where necessary.

Meet Your Therapists

Our team of professional Christian therapists includes those with Masters level Marriage & Family Therapy programs as well as Certified Sex Addiction Therapists (CSAT).  They are committed to helping you recover from your pornography and/or sex addiction and if you are married, to helping you rebuild and recover your marriage. We promise to help you feel heard and acknowledged through our structured process, no matter the circumstances that bring you to therapy. They all have training in empirically validated approaches to helping marriages recover from these kinds of addictions.

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Caleb Simonyi-Gindele MAMFT, RCC, CSAT
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Mike Takkinen MA, CPC, CSAT Candidate
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Ricky Aguilar MAMFT, RCC
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Jesse Schellenberg MAMFT, RCC
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Sharon Snooks SSW, RSSW

Caleb helps his clients find their way out of severe marital distress, trauma, betrayals, and addictions by giving them a safe, open space where they can explore and make sense of their experiences. He combines a healthy sense of humor with psychoeducation and a broad set of clinical skills to help foster personal growth and healing.

A registered counselor since 2009, Mike’s experience includes work with couples seeking to strengthen and/or rebuild their relationships and in helping individuals with issues such as addiction, anxiety, depression, and anger management. Engagement, authenticity, transparency, and collaboration are values that guide both Mike’s counselling work, and his personal life as a husband, father, and grandfather

Ricky believes that unprocessed emotions are what push people apart. Since we are created for connection, disconnection leaves individuals, families, and couples feeling distant, empty and in despair. Through the integration of faith and evidenced-based psychotherapy modalities, Ricky hopes to join you in your journey of finding new, loving ways of connecting. (Hablamos español)

Jesse is a graduate of the Marriage and Family therapy program at ACTS seminary and a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) with the British Columbia Association of Clinical Counsellors. Jesse specializes in couples’ therapy, pornography addiction, and individuals with trauma. Jesse works to create a trusting, open, and non-judgemental environment for his clients to create rewarding relationships.

Sharon has a variety of experience and education in the Social Services field spanning thirty years, with a focus on crisis and trauma in the past seven years. Sharon provides a safe and secure space to explore and heal, providing renewal and hope for the future. She loves working with teens as well as adults of all ages.


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Sharon has a variety of experience and education in the Social Services field spanning thirty years, with a focus on crisis and trauma in the past seven years. Sharon provides a safe and secure space to explore and heal, providing renewal and hope for the future. She loves working with teens as well as adults of all ages.

Sharon Snooks SSW, RSSW


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Jesse is a graduate of the Marriage and Family therapy program at ACTS seminary and a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) with the British Columbia Association of Clinical Counsellors. Jesse specializes in couples’ therapy, pornography addiction, and individuals with trauma. Jesse works to create a trusting, open, and non-judgemental environment for his clients to create rewarding relationships.

Jesse Schellenberg MAMFT, RCC


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A registered counselor since 2009, Mike’s experience includes work with couples seeking to strengthen and/or rebuild their relationships and in helping individuals with issues such as addiction, anxiety, depression, and anger management. Engagement, authenticity, transparency, and collaboration are values that guide both Mike’s counselling work, and his personal life as a husband, father, and grandfather

Mike Takkinen MA, CPC, CSAT Candidate


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Ricky believes that unprocessed emotions are what push people apart. Since we are created for connection, disconnection leaves individuals, families, and couples feeling distant, empty and in despair. Through the integration of faith and evidenced-based psychotherapy modalities, Ricky hopes to join you in your journey of finding new, loving ways of connecting. (Hablamos español)

Ricky Aguilar MAMFT, RCC


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Caleb helps his clients find their way out of severe marital distress, trauma, betrayals, and addictions by giving them a safe, open space where they can explore and make sense of their experiences. He combines a healthy sense of humor with psychoeducation and a broad set of clinical skills to help foster personal growth and healing.

Caleb Simonyi-Gindele MAMFT, RCC, CSAT

Why Choose OnlyYouForever Online Sex Addiction Counseling

1. Decades of collective counseling experience

2. Sessions delivered via secure video call

3. We work around your busy schedule

4. All therapists are proven and fully licensed

5. Over 1.5 million downloads of our marriage podcast

6. No hassles with commute or awkward office visits

Divorce is a costly alternative:

  • The average person loses 77% of net worth in a divorce
  • Legal costs can easily exceed $5,000 for each party
  • Establishing a new residence often costs $5000-$10000 or more
  • Can lead to a lifetime of chronic financial instability
  • Destroys social networks and forces friends to choose sides

With OnlyYouForever, you will:

  • Reclaim the life you’ve built with the one you love
  • Overcome shame and compulsive behaviours
  • Restore healthy forms of intimacy and trust
  • Help your marriage recover from long-kept secrets
  • Learn and restore healthy sexuality
  • Increase stability in your marriage, even after betrayal
  • Enjoy your spouse and live your best life

Transform Addictive Sexuality into Healthy Sexuality

Addictive Sexuality

  • Feels shameful
  • Is illicit, stolen or exploitative
  • Compromises values
  • Draws on fear for excitement
  • Reenacts childhood abuse
  • Disconnects from oneself
  • Creates a world of unreality
  • Is self-destructive and dangerous
  • Uses conquest or power
  • Serves to medicate and kill pain
  • Is dishonest or requires a double life
  • Becomes routine, grim or joyless
  • Demands perfection
  • Suffocating, demanding, clinging or disengaged

Healthy Sexuality

  • Fosters positive self-worth
  • Has no victims
  • Operates within a value system
  • Uses intimacy for excitement
  • Cultivates a sense of being an adult
  • Fosters sense of self
  • Expands reality through being in touch with the present 
  • Relies on safety
  • Is mutual, consensual, and equal
  • Fosters self-regulation of emotions
  • Originates in integrity and authenticity
  • Is spontaneous, fun and playful
  • Accepts the imperfect
  • Is respectful of boundaries, accepting and intimate 

Ready to Get Started?

Click the button below to schedule a free consultation. You’ll meet with one of our therapists for a 20-minute video call that will give you a chance to experience the online counseling experience and give us the opportunity to get to know you a little better to ensure we're the right fit for you. You can come alone, or both you and your spouse can join the consultation —  whatever works best for you.

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