Online Infidelity Counseling

Effective help to heal hearts and restore marriages when vows have been broken.

The image you have of your spouse has been shattered. 


Maybe you just discovered your husband’s pornography addiction; or perhaps you found out about the other woman. Or women. Maybe you are a husband whose wife has been unfaithful.

You are not sure who you can trust, perhaps not even sure if you can trust yourself any more. It feels like the world is crashing in around you and the end of your marriage is inevitable.

But it doesn’t have to be the end. Whether you are the betrayed spouse or the betraying spouse, we can help.

Did you know you can work together to restore your vows, heal your marriage, and reconnect with your spouse, all from the comfort of your own home?

Our team of Christian therapists help couples recover from devastating betrayal, heal their hearts, and restore their marriages through online infidelity counseling.

We help couples through many issues

We have the experience, training and expertise to help you recover from a variety of forms of betrayal:

  • Infidelity: Adultery, emotional affairs
  • Pornography and/or sex addiction
  • Financial betrayal
  • Hidden addictions
  • Long-kept secrets that have recently surfaced

Benefits of Online Infidelity Counseling

Our online infidelity counseling offers the proven effectiveness of traditional marriage counseling, delivered through a private, secure video call. With it you will:

1. Save Time and Energy

2. Avoid Commute and Hassle of Finding Parking

3. Eliminate Awkward Waiting Room Time

4. Meet with your Counselor from the Location of your Choice

How it Works

We have a direct, proven approach to improving your marital satisfaction. Where other online counseling businesses offer untested approaches and expansive teams of anonymous helpers, we have a team of hand-picked therapists who have chosen to specialize in helping couples rebuild, renew, and recover their marriages through proven, marriage-focused methods.

We don't just help you “get past this.” We help you to understand what happened, make sense of how you got there as a couple, and restructure your marriage so you can co-create a new way of relating that is resistant to infidelity and resilient to other challenges. 

Help for the Betrayed

Our licensed counselors have decades of collective experience in helping others recover from betrayal. We'll help you pick up the pieces of your shattered marriage, create safety and stability for yourself, and then walk with you through the decision of whether to recover your marriage or not. We work with you from a Bible-based value system to help you:

  • Understand the nature and extent of the betrayal

  • Process the grief, confusion, and feelings of broken trust

  • Figure out how to survive the first 90 days and beyond

  • Set boundaries and get the honest details you need

  • Establish emotional safety and begin to heal

Help for the Betrayer

We treat betraying spouses with kindness and respect. We'll still be straight with you, but we'll help you figure out what happened, why, and what you need to do in order to restore yourself as a safe person to your betrayed spouse. You'll learn how to:

  • Make sense of the affair/betrayal and why it happened

  • Get past your own defensiveness and minimization

  • Acknowledge your spouse’s grief without becoming overwhelmed

  • Re-establish trust with your spouse over time

  • Resolve underlying issues so you're not likely to repeat the betrayal


Meet Your Counselors

Our team of professional Christian therapists come from Masters level Marriage & Family Therapy programs with training in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy.  They are committed to helping you rebuild and recover your marriage, and promise to help you feel heard and acknowledged through our structured process, no matter the circumstances that bring you to therapy. They all have training in empirically validated approaches to helping marriages recover from infidelity. Our goal is creating secure, lasting bonds by increasing closeness and connection.

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Mike Takkinen MA, CPC, CSAT Candidate
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Sharon Snooks SSW, RSSW
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Ricky Aguilar MAMFT, RCC
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Caleb Simonyi-Gindele MAMFT, RCC, CSAT
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Evi Donevan MDiv, RP
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Jesse Schellenberg MAMFT, RCC

A registered counselor since 2009, Mike’s experience includes work with couples seeking to strengthen and/or rebuild their relationships and in helping individuals with issues such as addiction, anxiety, depression, and anger management. Engagement, authenticity, transparency, and collaboration are values that guide both Mike’s counselling work, and his personal life as a husband, father, and grandfather

Sharon has a variety of experience and education in the Social Services field spanning thirty years, with a focus on crisis and trauma in the past seven years. Sharon provides a safe and secure space to explore and heal, providing renewal and hope for the future. She loves working with teens as well as adults of all ages.

Ricky believes that unprocessed emotions are what push people apart. Since we are created for connection, disconnection leaves individuals, families, and couples feeling distant, empty and in despair. Through the integration of faith and evidenced-based psychotherapy modalities, Ricky hopes to join you in your journey of finding new, loving ways of connecting. (Hablamos español)

Caleb helps his clients find their way out of severe marital distress, trauma, betrayals, and addictions by giving them a safe, open space where they can explore and make sense of their experiences. He combines a healthy sense of humor with psychoeducation and a broad set of clinical skills to help foster personal growth and healing.

Over the years Evi has often observed that people’s greatest pain occurs in the context of their closest relationships leaving partners feeling hopeless and alone. Using faith and EFT she believes that no matter how far apart you feel from connecting with your partner, it is possible to reconnect, re-kindle, sustain and nurture your relationship.

Jesse is a graduate of the Marriage and Family therapy program at ACTS seminary and a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) with the British Columbia Association of Clinical Counsellors. Jesse specializes in couples’ therapy, pornography addiction, and individuals with trauma. Jesse works to create a trusting, open, and non-judgemental environment for his clients to create rewarding relationships.


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Over the years Evi has often observed that people’s greatest pain occurs in the context of their closest relationships leaving partners feeling hopeless and alone. Using faith and EFT she believes that no matter how far apart you feel from connecting with your partner, it is possible to reconnect, re-kindle, sustain and nurture your relationship.

Evi Donevan MDiv, RP


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Sharon has a variety of experience and education in the Social Services field spanning thirty years, with a focus on crisis and trauma in the past seven years. Sharon provides a safe and secure space to explore and heal, providing renewal and hope for the future. She loves working with teens as well as adults of all ages.

Sharon Snooks SSW, RSSW


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Jesse is a graduate of the Marriage and Family therapy program at ACTS seminary and a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) with the British Columbia Association of Clinical Counsellors. Jesse specializes in couples’ therapy, pornography addiction, and individuals with trauma. Jesse works to create a trusting, open, and non-judgemental environment for his clients to create rewarding relationships.

Jesse Schellenberg MAMFT, RCC


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Ricky believes that unprocessed emotions are what push people apart. Since we are created for connection, disconnection leaves individuals, families, and couples feeling distant, empty and in despair. Through the integration of faith and evidenced-based psychotherapy modalities, Ricky hopes to join you in your journey of finding new, loving ways of connecting. (Hablamos español)

Ricky Aguilar MAMFT, RCC


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Caleb helps his clients find their way out of severe marital distress, trauma, betrayals, and addictions by giving them a safe, open space where they can explore and make sense of their experiences. He combines a healthy sense of humor with psychoeducation and a broad set of clinical skills to help foster personal growth and healing.

Caleb Simonyi-Gindele MAMFT, RCC, CSAT


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A registered counselor since 2009, Mike’s experience includes work with couples seeking to strengthen and/or rebuild their relationships and in helping individuals with issues such as addiction, anxiety, depression, and anger management. Engagement, authenticity, transparency, and collaboration are values that guide both Mike’s counselling work, and his personal life as a husband, father, and grandfather

Mike Takkinen MA, CPC, CSAT Candidate

With OnlyYouForever, you will:

· Reclaim the life you’ve built with the one you love
· Overcome infidelity to re-discover intimacy and trust
· Help your marriage endure any hardship
· Create an intimate and honest marriage
· Build a marriage that’s unbreakable, even after betrayal
· Enjoy your relationship and live your best life

Ready to Get Started?

Click the button below to schedule a free consultation. You’ll meet with one of our therapists for a 20-minute video call that will give you a chance to experience the online marriage counseling experience and give us the opportunity to get to know you a little better to ensure we're the right fit for you. You can come alone, or both you and your spouse can join the consultation —  whatever works best for you.

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