Online Betrayal Counseling

Effective help to heal hearts and restore marriages when trust has been broken.

Your spouse is not who you thought they were. 


Maybe you just discovered your wife’s credit card debt. Or your husband’s gambling addiction. Or your spouse cheated on you and you just aren’t able to ‘get over it’. Perhaps you found out about long-kept secret, a secret addiction, or an investment gone wrong.

You’re not sure who you can trust, perhaps not even sure if you can trust yourself anymore. It feels like the world is crashing in around you and you aren’t even sure of who you are anymore.

But this doesn’t have to be the end of your marriage or sanity. You didn’t sign up for trauma, and it doesn’t have to be the new you. You can heal from it.

We will help you recover from trauma, restore your trust and sense of identity, and reconnect with your spouse, all from the comfort of your own home.

Our team of Christian therapists help individuals and couples recover from devastating betrayal and restore their relationship through online betrayal counseling.

We help people through many types of betrayal

We have the experience, training and expertise to help you recover from a wide range of betrayals and consequences thereof:

  • Financial betrayal (gambling, credit card debt, bad investments, loan defaults)
  • Hidden addictions
  • Long-kept secrets that have recently surfaced
  • Post Infidelity Stress Disorder

Benefits of Online Betrayal Counseling

Our online betrayal counseling offers the proven effectiveness of traditional 1:1 counseling, delivered through a private, secure video call. With it you will:

1. Save Time and Energy

2. Avoid Commute and Hassle of Finding Parking

3. Eliminate Awkward Waiting Room Time

4. Meet with your Counselor from the Location of your Choice

How it Works

We have a direct, proven approach to working through hurt and betrayal. Where other online counseling businesses offer untested approaches and expansive teams of anonymous helpers, we have a team of hand-picked therapists who have chosen to specialize in helping traumatized spouses rebuild, renew, and restore trust through proven, marriage-focused methods. 

We don't just help you “get past this.” We help you to understand the trauma and its side effects, make sense of how you got there as a couple, and restructure your life so you can create a new way of relating that is resistant to future challenges.

Help for the Betrayed

Our licensed counselors have decades of collective experience in helping others recover from betrayal. We'll help you pick up the pieces of your shattered life, create safety and stability for yourself, heal from the traumatic impact of betrayal, and walk with you through the decision of whether to recover your marriage or not. We work with you from a Bible-based value system to help you:


  • Understand the nature and extent of the betrayal
  • Process the grief, confusion, and feelings of broken trust
  • Figure out how to survive the first 90 days and beyond
  • Set boundaries and get the honest details you need
  • Establish emotional safety and begin to heal

Help for the Betrayer

We treat betraying spouses with kindness and respect. We'll still be straight with you, but we'll help you figure out what happened, why, and what you need to do in order to restore yourself as a safe person to your betrayed spouse. You'll learn how to:

  • Make sense of your betrayal and why it happened

  • Get past your own defensiveness and minimization

  • Acknowledge your spouse’s grief without becoming overwhelmed

  • Re-establish trust with your spouse over time

  • Resolve underlying issues so you're not likely to repeat the betrayal


Meet Your Counselors

Our team of professional Christian therapists come from Masters level Marriage & Family Therapy programs with training in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy.  They are committed to helping you rebuild and recover your marriage, and promise to help you feel heard and acknowledged through our structured process, no matter the circumstances that bring you to therapy. They all have training in empirically validated approaches to helping marriages recover from infidelity. Our goal is creating secure, lasting bonds by increasing closeness and connection.

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Ricky Aguilar MAMFT, RCC
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Caleb Simonyi-Gindele MAMFT, RCC, CSAT
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Mike Takkinen MA, CPC, CSAT Candidate
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Sharon Snooks SSW, RSSW

Ricky believes that unprocessed emotions are what push people apart. Since we are created for connection, disconnection leaves individuals, families, and couples feeling distant, empty and in despair. Through the integration of faith and evidenced-based psychotherapy modalities, Ricky hopes to join you in your journey of finding new, loving ways of connecting. (Hablamos español)

Caleb helps his clients find their way out of severe marital distress, trauma, betrayals, and addictions by giving them a safe, open space where they can explore and make sense of their experiences. He combines a healthy sense of humor with psychoeducation and a broad set of clinical skills to help foster personal growth and healing.

A registered counselor since 2009, Mike’s experience includes work with couples seeking to strengthen and/or rebuild their relationships and in helping individuals with issues such as addiction, anxiety, depression, and anger management. Engagement, authenticity, transparency, and collaboration are values that guide both Mike’s counselling work, and his personal life as a husband, father, and grandfather

Sharon has a variety of experience and education in the Social Services field spanning thirty years, with a focus on crisis and trauma in the past seven years. Sharon provides a safe and secure space to explore and heal, providing renewal and hope for the future. She loves working with teens as well as adults of all ages.


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Ricky believes that unprocessed emotions are what push people apart. Since we are created for connection, disconnection leaves individuals, families, and couples feeling distant, empty and in despair. Through the integration of faith and evidenced-based psychotherapy modalities, Ricky hopes to join you in your journey of finding new, loving ways of connecting. (Hablamos español)

Ricky Aguilar MAMFT, RCC


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Sharon has a variety of experience and education in the Social Services field spanning thirty years, with a focus on crisis and trauma in the past seven years. Sharon provides a safe and secure space to explore and heal, providing renewal and hope for the future. She loves working with teens as well as adults of all ages.

Sharon Snooks SSW, RSSW


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A registered counselor since 2009, Mike’s experience includes work with couples seeking to strengthen and/or rebuild their relationships and in helping individuals with issues such as addiction, anxiety, depression, and anger management. Engagement, authenticity, transparency, and collaboration are values that guide both Mike’s counselling work, and his personal life as a husband, father, and grandfather

Mike Takkinen MA, CPC, CSAT Candidate


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Caleb helps his clients find their way out of severe marital distress, trauma, betrayals, and addictions by giving them a safe, open space where they can explore and make sense of their experiences. He combines a healthy sense of humor with psychoeducation and a broad set of clinical skills to help foster personal growth and healing.

Caleb Simonyi-Gindele MAMFT, RCC, CSAT

Ready to Get Started?

Click the button below to schedule a free consultation. You’ll meet with one of our therapists for a 20-minute video call that will give you a chance to experience the online marriage counseling experience and give us the opportunity to get to know you a little better to ensure we're the right fit for you. You can come alone, or both you and your spouse can join the consultation —  whatever works best for you.

Trauma doesn't have to be the new you. You CAN heal from it.

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