Talk To Me 101

Step-by-step course to help couples learn to communicate effectively

Have you ever asked your spouse a simple question, only to end up in a shouting match?

Relationships are full of misunderstandings, no matter how long you’ve been married. Whether it's about finances, the kids, sex, or work-life balance, everyday situations can cause friction, leaving you feeling lonely and isolated

Did you know communication is the No. 1 challenge married couples face? Unfortunately, marriage doesn’t come with an instruction manual. High expectations often lead to disappointment and communication breakdowns.

It’s easy to feel like you’re the only couple struggling to communicate with each other, and not know how to make it better. Counseling can be expensive and divorce is costly and emotionally draining. But those aren’t your only option.

The Talk to Me 101 Course is designed to help busy couples like yourselves move away from conflict and confusion to build a better marriage by learning to talk through sensitive issues successfully.

We have a proven model to improve your understanding of each other, overcome your fear of hot topics, and learn how to manage and express your emotions safely so you can reach new levels of intimacy and build a thriving future together.

Traditional Communication Practices

  • Build a wall in your relationship
  • Lack patience and grace
  • Avoid sensitive topics
  • Lack understanding of each other
  • Have conflicting values and priorities
  • Create ongoing conflict

With the Talk To Me 101 Course, you will:

  • Improve understanding of your spouse
  • Stop fighting and start talking to one another
  • Improve communication and conflict resolution skills
  • Increase emotional and sexual intimacy
  • Solve problems you have been stuck on "forever" 
  • Learn to navigate through topics successfully
Caleb Simonyi-Gindele

Meet Your Instructor

Caleb Simonyi-Gindele, MAMFT, RCC

Caleb is the Director and co-founder of Only You Forever. He also co-hosts The Marriage Podcast for Smart People (which has more than 1 million downloads) with his wife Verlynda. He has been helping heal marriages through in-person and online counseling for more than 10 years.

Whether it has been helping other marriages as a therapist or growing in his own marriage, Caleb has learned there are essential communications skills we all need. Skills that, unfortunately, are rarely taught in our families, schools, or faith communities.

That’s why he created the Talk to Me 101 course, which gives couples the tools they need to avoid becoming severely distressed and reduce their risk of divorce.

From the comfort of your own home, you and your spouse can develop the skills you need to create a marriage you'll love today and treasure for a lifetime.

How it Works

Imagine what it would be like to have life's challenges become opportunities to draw closer as a couple. After you purchase Talk To Me 101, getting started towards a better marriage is straightforward:

  1. 1
    ​Print the Workbook

    Your step-by-step guide to learning, practicing and implementing what you hear in the video lessons. The workbook will help reinforce important principles and solidify your understanding of key concepts.

  2. 2

    Do the Video Lessons

    Each lesson will help you discover what is happening beneath the surface when communicating. Learn to solve problems together and deepen your intimacy.

  3. 3

    Explore the Bonus Material

    A curated list of the best resources available to help extend the benefits of what you learn in Talk To Me 101.

  4. 4

    Enjoy Better Communication in Your Marriage

    With new understanding and skills, you'll be able to deal with issues before they become problems and enjoy productive, intimate discussions with one another.

Talk To Me 101 really helped me understand myself and my husband more deeply. It has taken a whole lot of stress out of our disagreements, and I still think about the lessons learned, even months later, as we talk through things.


The Talk to Me 101 Course

Module 1: Unlock Deeper Understanding

Learn a framework normally reserved for expensive counseling sessions that will help you understand what is going on in your spouse’s inner world. It’s framed in language that makes sense to you (no psycho-babble). Includes step-by-step exercises and the exact questions to ask your spouse.

Module 2: Core Skills

Built on the foundation laid in the first module, we’ll explore the skills that are essential to the in-the-moment practice of communicating with each other. You’ll get practical, real-world tools that will help you start important discussions off on the right foot, keep them on track, and keep you connected without having to give up what’s important to you.

Module 3: Best (& Worst!) Practices

The final module uncovers the critical, must-have concepts for effective marriage communication. You’ll learn overarching principles that have a daily impact on how you’re getting along, including four that should be completely removed from your marriage because they can lead to an 80% chance of divorcing.

Printable Workbook

The Talk to Me 101 course includes a 23-page printable workbook that will help you absorb and process each lesson’s main points so you can capture key takeaways and action items.

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